Dear Clair, my name is Tom Muench and I am an admissions counselor at Le Moyne College. I am also an agent of help for you. I want you to know that the total Le Moyne Community is praying for you today. A dear friend of mine, Bob Daley, called to tell me about your Dad. This is the most hurtful day of your life. I send my sympathy and thoughts to you. If you want to talk, you can email your thoughts or call me at anytime at 315-445-0878. You will need support and we are here at your college to help you. I do hope you do not mind, but I am going to notify people of your situation. You need time to grieve and collect yourself. It is going to take time. Do you have someone to talk to???? Again you can just use me as a sounding board. I will tell you one thing that I do know. Your Dad has not left you. You will feel him at the most unusual times. He will be a support for you. I will tell you something else. You are being challenged right down to your bones to move forward after having the hardest hit you have ever felt. You can and must do that. I really would like to meet you when you come to school or just call to talk. Your Le Moyne community will support you all the way. We will cry with you, pray with you, support you, and just be here for you. My heart is so heavy. You will never know why this happens. You just won't . I just don't know, I just don't know. But we are here for you. tom muench