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Deborah Havens
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Condolence From: Jennifer Bell
Condolence: Mommy. I will never get over loosing you even after almost 13 years. Now my heart us forever broken again as your mom came home to you on April 1st, 2023. I dreamed I was sitting by her hospital bedside when she passed. I saw her spirit rise from her body and she had been renewed again. She looked like she was 30 years old. She sat on the edge of the hospital bed and occasionally would turn and look back where she passed. She looked at me and her son, you little brother, Donnie but didn't sat anything. She stood beside the bed slightly confused she didn't see to know what to do. She became fixed on the hallway staring into it as if she were waiting for someone a short time later the hallway began to glow with white light. It became brighter and brighter until it was completely flooded with blinding yet sparkling light. Then gma took a step forward and she slowly extended her arms towards that light. If I didn't know better she was reaching out for someone and the wildest most unbelievable thing happened you suddenly appeared in the doorway to the room. Glowing and beautifully dressed. You were dressed in a pure white embellished gown. You appeared as a young girl and you were smiling looking at all of us as you extended your arms offering your hands to your mother. You were sent to help guide your mother so she could find her way home to be with the Lord, you and the rest of our family that had passed long ago. You both slowly began to walk to each other and finally surrounded one another hugging, in a warm, loving embrace. Hand in hand you turned away from us and began to to walk out into the hallway. elled out to you both. "Mama....gma...please don't leave me here all alone I don't know what to do or where to go with out you. Please stop. I begged. They turned once more and they waved goodbye to me as I fell to my knees weeping. You both made your way to the hallway and then you both looked at me and began to sing a lullaby to me and waved you both turned away and began to walk down the hall. I could barely hear your angelic voices as they began to fade right along with the equally fading white light. After a few moments you both were gone. Everything turned black and I woke up and was left imagining if any thing I had witnessed even real. Even if it was a dream I choose to believe it was real. I knew everything would be OK and I felt this unbelievable peace wash over me. Thank you both for this amazing gift. I love you mom. I love you gma. Until we meet again!

Love,

Jennifer Ursher Shy Shy and Logan Lil Shy
Monday April 24, 2023
Condolence From: Lisa Hedrick
Condolence: Please accept me deepest sympathy for your loss.I didn't know Deborah for very long or well,but she was a regular customer in my store.She was always so pleasant and friendly. We will miss her.
Tuesday August 03, 2010
Condolence From: Susan Hedges
Condolence: Jen and family,
I am sorry for your loss and you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Know that I am only a phone call away if you need to vent or just wanna talk to get your mind off for a few minutes.
Susan Hedges
Monday August 02, 2010
Condolence From: AmyF
Condolence: Jenn & family, I am so sorry that you have lost your mother in such a sudden way. I think you should celebrate in the woman that your mother has shaped you into. You are a great person and friend (even long distance), I am very sure that your mom was very proud of you and your family and your dedication to your family. Celebrate her life, don't mourn her too long.
Monday August 02, 2010
Condolence From: Donna Herring
Condolence: I am so sorry for your loss Ava...I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. love ,Donna Herring
Monday August 02, 2010
Condolence From: Kim and Arnie Easton
Condolence: We send our deepest sympathy to the family. You are in our prayers and we love you all very much.
Thursday July 29, 2010
Condolence From: Jennifer Bell
Condolence: Mommy. I love and miss you very much. I cannot believe you are gone. My life will never be the same without you in it. I pray that God has you and will keep you in his loving arms forever. There isn't a day that goes by that i don't think of you often. I love you Shy-shy. xo
Thursday July 29, 2010

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